Mama's Coffee Hour

It’s just a regular morning for me, I wake up and all I can think about is that first cup of coffee. It’s an aroma of smells, every morning, greeting all my senses awake. Coffee pot leaving a trail for all the coffee addicts in the house. It’s me, I’m the coffee addict, and this aroma is my wake-up call, my daily ritual, and my little piece of heaven.  A warm embrace as the world wakes up. A symphony of flavor in every line. Steam rises gently, a fleeting mist, a moment of solace, not to be missed.Sipping slowly, eyes closed tight, finding comfort in each sip’s delight. Coffee, oh coffee, my morning muse. You life my spirits, chase away my blues. From the first sip to the very last, in your warmth, my worries are cast. A faithful companion, through day and night, in your embrace, everything feels right. With every brew, my heart sings true, coffee, dear coffee forever i cherish you.

  Trust is the foundation for any healthy relationship, whether it’s with a partner, family member, friend, or colleague. However, trust can be fragile, and once broken, it can be challenging to rebuild. Trust issues can arise from past experiences, insecurities, and fears, and they can significantly impact our interactions  and relationships. In this blog post, I want to share my personal journey through trust issues, their effects, and how I've tried to overcome them.       Trust issues have been a part of my life for as long as I remember. Whether it was the result of past betrayals or simply the fear of being hurt, the ability to fully trust others has always been a challenge or I trust too easily and still get hurt. Trust issues have had a profound impact on my relationships. Distrust created a barricade , leading to constant suspicion and misunderstandings. It affected my self-esteem, making me feel like I was unworthy of love and support. Communicati...

   ❤✨Hello Beautiful Mama's Have you struggled through transitioning our little ones from our beds to their very own big girl bed? If so, PLEASE send help!! This mama is definitely struggling.  Transitioning from co-sleeping to a big girl bed is a monumental step for both toddlers and parents alike. As we navigate this journey, there are moments of joy, frustration, and everything in between. Now if that ain't true then I don't know what is. "how's it going" you ask. NOT GREAT. Not only is Tiny feeling big emotions but so is this mama.  Today marks day one out of six tries ( all different times, yes I know consistently is Key). Each time I try to get Tiny to sleep in her own bed, it's a damn fight and boy, does it hurt my heart. I'll get her all set up in bed, without tears. Then it starts. Knocking on the door, screaming, the alligator tears, the repetitive needing of something, and the constant up down motion from my office chair. This entire time, I...

  I Am Trying Chasing perfection, with love as my guide. In motherhood's journey, where doubts often hide... I am trying, don’t you see? I get up every morning even when it's a mental battle to put my feet into motion. I am trying, don’t you see? I clean up after us, not all times but I do and I wish you would notice. I am trying, don’t you see? I’m trying to understand the role of a mother but no manual was given at birth. I am trying, don’t you see? I try even when the reflection looking back at me is unrecognizable      That child is my world and I will forever put her first. You question my ability to provide for my daughter, my brain already does that for you, but watch me rise above, proving my love, in everything I do.      My daughter is my everything, my breath each day. She brings light to my life in a magical way. In ways she’ll never know. She rescued me. Her love, her laughter, sets my spirit free. She’s my reason, my hope, my endless deli...

💘💫 Hearing those three words from the man who truly shows he loves you for the first time just hits different. The world doesn’t talk about it enough, I think. They say “If he wanted to, he would” and ladies hear me out… This works for same state relationships and long distant relationships. Personally, for me, these words have a way of making me weak, but in the best possible way. And when he says them just right, from Mr. Thinks He’s Right, they have a special power that melts my heart. In the realm of love, three little words hold immense power: “I love you.” When said by Mr. Future Husband, these words have the ability to make a girl feel incredible. It’s a simple phrase, yet it carries a depth of emotion that can transform her entire world. In the grand tapestry of life, these moments of love and connection are the threads that weave together a beautiful story. So, whether you’re hearing these words for the first time or the hundredth, cherish them and let them be a reminder of ...

  Because my car is not the only thing that runs at 100 miles an hour… The constant “mama” from the back seat while driving then add the brain that is running at 100 mph. Thought after thought, list after list, everything comes with a flash and that final “mama” breaks through your thoughts. Out of frustration, you turn around and your voice is raised as you say “what?” That little smile that once was there fades away which makes you realize your raised voice was maybe a little too harsh. Brings me back to reality and realize that I'm talking to my best friend, my mini me. Patience floods in again, because how dare I lose my temper at my child, but we’re human right? Moments like these are lessons to discern, So the future me can flourish and earn a life for my child well deserved.   I started attacking myself, I think we would call this motherly guilt, wondering if what I did was enough, but after all I didn't have much help. That weight begins to take its place in my sto...